They use separate and joint Tinder accounts to search for individual encounters and threesomes, swiping through other users aged 25 to 40 for 'casual fun' as well as 'emotional connections'.Adultery is illegal under Jewish law, and offenders are banished from their communities, so James and Monica have to be very careful with their extramarital adventures.Religion brainwashed me into doing irrational and emotionally self-damaging things that I would have easily recognized as primitive and harmful were it not for my indoctrination.Of all the practices I look back on with horror, this was the worst.Even the slightest deviation from these laws would compromise a couple’s standing as practicing Orthodox Jews in the eyes of a rabbinical court.You see, beginning on the days when she anticipates her period, a husband and wife are forbidden from having any sexual relations until seven days following the end of her period.
Here is an excerpt from a website detailing very specific examination instructions (If during the seven days any of the examination cloths contain even a tiny spot darker than tan, or a spot on her underwear bigger than a penny and darker than tan, she must take the underwear or cloth to a special rabbi for further evaluation.
These laws apply even after a miscarriage, during childbirth, months following childbirth, and even if a spouse loses a family member and needs a hug from their partner.
While the woman is required to count seven clean days before she may immerse herself in a ritual bath (mikvah) prior to reuniting with her husband, it’s not only a matter of days or time waiting.
The girls are also told that without a forced physical separation, their husbands will only see them as sexual toys and will have no incentive to talk to them and connect on a deeper emotional and intellectual level.
A: According to Jewish law, women can’t be judges and can’t make legal rulings.