Few men are going to slow down the train to paradise, so it’s up to you to turn down the heat. Mature men will know the system and respect your restraint.But youth, cocktails or too much unrestrained passion can cause things to go too far. In the heat of the moment, the heart and the body just want fulfillment.Make it a good hug: linger, breathe, be present, squeeze.The feeling of being safe and warm in your arms will linger with her far after you leave her door.It will also keep that end-of-night moment from being awkward because he probably doesn’t know what to do either.
The truth is this list gives you plenty of room to be authentic. For example: you are now free to discuss religion, politics, and past relationships (keep this one to a minimum.) You can start to flirt a little more heavily and see if she has a good sense of humor about it.
It also gives you the opportunity to look like a good potential partner to a woman. You can kiss her if you feel she's warmed up to you.
Keep in mind that you are a giant pizza, laden with toppings galore: a fraction Hawaiian, a fraction pepperoni, a fraction olives and feta, a fraction plain cheese… If you loved this article, do me (and all the single ladies) a favor and pass it on!
But the bottom line is, I’m just not very good with “relationships” or dating in general.
Can you help give me a clue on how to be more successful with the ladies?