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These are all lifestyle choices that have an impact on the household. However, your folks own the house you're living in.
There are many societies where the whole family sleeps in one room, and making the transition into this family by sleeping together may be a helpful step.
As the girl becomes a teen and wants to have friends stay over, having her design a room of her own would be the next transition to independence.
For many people ghosting can result in feelings of being disrespected, used and disposable. Take the romantics away, to have a great connection with a new friend and then all of a sudden never hear from them again? No one deserves to be blown off.” “It still felt a bit like someone had punched me in the gut when it happened. The only thing worse than being broken up with is realizing that someone didn’t even consider you worth breaking up with.” But in addition to this biological link between rejection and pain, there are some specific factors about ghosting that contribute to the psychological distress. Staying connected to others is so important to our survival that our brain has evolved to have a social monitoring system (SMS) that monitors the environment for cues so that we know how to respond in social situations.
If you have known the person beyond more than a few dates then it can be even more traumatic. Social cues allow us to regulate our own behavior accordingly, but ghosting deprives you of these usual cues and can create a sense of emotional dysregulation where you feel out of control.